How do we learn to be content and satisfied in God like that; and then model and teach how to avoid getting re-infected with materialism to our families?
Contentment Must Become a Learned Way of Life
One of the best ways to start is to do a study of 1 Timothy 6:6ā17, which describes seven principles that promote contentment by resisting materialism.
Principle 1āRemember that things are only temporary: Godliness with contentment is great gain. For we brought nothing into this world, and we can carry nothing out (1 Timothy 6:6ā7).
You cannot take it with you. There are no U-Haul trailers behind hearses.
āDiscontent will destroy your peace, rob you of joy, make you miserable, spoil your witness. We dishonor God if we proclaim a Savior who satisfies and then go around discontent.ā
They who are content do not have to worry about the latest styles or what to wear tomorrow. They can rejoice in their neighborās good fortune without having to feel inferior. They do not fret with wrinkles or graying because they accept what comes.
They do not have to worry how they might buy this or that because they have no desire for this or that. They have time for gratitude even in small things. They have time for relationships because possessions and the bank do not own them.
Principle 2āOnly seek necessities, and wait for the rest: Having food and clothing, with these we shall be content (1 Timothy 6:8).
We need shelter and the basic provisions of life, but everything beyond that is simply a great blessing. Whether it comes or goes is okay. God has said that all we are supposed to expect in life are food and clothing, so we should be happy with that.
Principle 3āAvoid a consuming desire for prosperity: Those who desire to be rich fall into temptation and many foolish and harmful lusts, For the love of money, is a root of all kinds of evil, for which some have strayed from the faith and pierced themselves through with many sorrows (1 Timothy 6:9ā10).
America has been fed a prosperity diet. You might say, āThat is not meāI am not rich.ā If you own a car, you are rich. Ninety-five percent of the people in the world canāt afford a car. Your watch and the clothes you have on are worth more than what hundreds of millions of people on earth have.
Principle 4āFlee materialism: Pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, patience, and gentleness (1 Timothy 6:11).
Do you seek to accumulate possessionsāor to grow in Christlikeness? Value what will count for eternity!
Principle 5āCling to eternal life: Fight the good fight of faith, lay hold on to eternal life, to which you were also called. Keep this commandment without spot, blameless until our Lord Jesus Christās appearing (1 Timothy 6:12, 14).
We need a whole generation of people who are holding tighter to eternal life than they are to this world.
If weāre not careful before long our possessions can possess us. They then become an anchor that holds us back. The care of riches clouds our minds from seeking the purity of Christ.
Principle 6āFix your hope on God: Command those who are rich not to be haughty, nor to trust in uncertain riches but in the living God (1 Timothy 6:17).
There is nothing wrong with wealth, but we are to recognize the danger of relying upon it. All that we own can evaporate as quickly as a blip on a computer screen. There are few things that are real possessions in this world; but the living God, who gives us richly all things to enjoy, can never fail usāand our trust in Him is certain!
Principle 7āGive until it hurts: Let them do good, ready to give, willing to share, storing up for themselves a good foundation for the time to come, that they may lay hold on eternal life (1 Timothy 6:18ā19).
The real cure for materialism is to give until it hurts! Giving āuntil it hurtsā means giving at the cost of personal sacrifice. For example, the widow gave both of her mites, or all that she had (Mark 12:42ā44). The woman who anointed Jesus broke the flask of fragrant oil and irrecoverably gave all she had to Him (Luke 7:37ā47). Sacrificial gifts are especially important to Jesus.
That is why the last words that John wrote in 1 John, should speak to each of us:
1 John 5:20-21 (NKJV) And we know that the Son of God has come and has given us an understanding, that we may know Him who is true; and we are in Him who is true, in His Son Jesus Christ. This is the true God and eternal life. 21 Little children, keep yourselves from idols. Amen.