We see this illustrated in Eli’s life.
Eli had two sons named Hophni and Phinehas, who also served as priests.
God called these men “sons of Belial,” or children of the devil.
Yet Eli never dealt with his sons about their sins.
He never spoke to them more than an empty word of caution.
After all, he knew anything he might say to them was in vain, because of his own spiritual sloth.
1. YOUNG MEN SHOULD SEE THEIR FATHERS as “sensible in all things” (vv. 6–7a).
We’ve seen Paul use this characteristic of elders, older men, and younger women. Young men need to develop self-control and balance, discernment and judgment (cf. 2 Tim. 2:22; 1 Peter 5:5).
The phrase “in all things” stretches this matter of mental balance and self-mastery in the Christian life to an almost infinite level. Young men—so potentially volatile, impulsive, passionate, arrogant, and ambitious—need to become masters over every area in their lives. Fathers, do your boys see this type of Spirit-controlled living in you?
2. YOUNG MEN SHOULD SEE THEIR FATHERS as “example of good deeds”:
Paul turns from the young men, in general, to encourage Titus to “show [himself] to be an example of good deeds.” One of the most important qualities of a leader is the example he sets. Paul wanted Titus to be a model first of “good deeds.”
That refers to his inherent righteousness, nobility, and moral excellence. A godly young man is to model righteousness in everything he does. Young men, you’ll begin to control your life when you understand God wants you committed to producing righteous, holy deeds. Fathers, do your boys see this type of Spirit-controlled living in you?